The Bear has always been great at drama but never seemed to get romance right, explained in depth

FX series The Bear (image via Hulu)
FX series The Bear (image via Hulu)

The FX series The Bear has received universal praise for its gritty drama and realistic portrayal of life in restaurants. The show's forays into family, mourning, and ambition have struck a chord with the audience and critics alike. Romance, however, has not been as successful for The Bear.

The central romantic storyline, now that Carmy and Claire were introduced in the second season, has been criticized as being less developed and failing to connect viewers in the same way as most elements of the show's drama.

The focus on this particular romance was even suggested to be a misstep on the part of the show, especially when it overshadows other relationships with potential that deserve equal attention.


The Bear's strength in drama

The Bear excels as a realistic and high-stakes take on the restaurant business. Personal turmoil defines the drama of this show, most characteristically in Carmy, who comes back to Chicago to continue running his late brother's sandwich shop. A series dealing with sadness, family tension, and the weight of legacy, the show centers on a variety of themes.

What characterizes the show is its take on the chaos of the kitchen environment and the psychosocial effects it has on people. The drama is heightened by the characters’ complex relationships with each other, their pasts, and their ambitions.

Writing and performances help make the drama of the show. The scenes are frequently played out in real time, with quick back-and-forth dialogue and conversations that overlap each other, much like the chaos that exists in a hectic kitchen.

The creators of the show have been complimented for their attention to authenticity, from the technical process of cooking to the emotional trajectory of the characters. This attention to realism and emotional authenticity has helped the drama of The Bear be plausible and interesting.


The show's take on romance

Though The Bear is best at drama, it has not handled romance as well. The primary romantic plotline is between Carmy and Claire, who are childhood pals who get back together as adults. Claire's introduction in season two was initially good for Carmy's character growth, but the relationship soon stagnated and did not evolve into a significant or enduring romance.

Critics have complained that Claire's character appears one-dimensional and is actually present primarily to support Carmy's story, not as a complete character in herself. The presentation of romance in the show is also influenced by the setting of the show.

The intense, confining atmosphere of the restaurant is not conducive to a typical romantic narrative. Rather than being focused on the characters' working and personal dilemmas, there is little space for romance to develop. Even when the show does provide hints at possible pairings between the central staff, these are brief and not pursued in detail.


Why the romance falls flat

There are a number of reasons why romance in The Bear hasn't worked for fans. For one, the romance between Carmy and Claire is not emotionally invested. Carmy is more committed to his work and maintaining his brother's legacy than he is to his romantic relationship.

His inability to express himself or hold a healthy relationship stems from his family history, specifically his tumultuous relationship with his mother, hence possibly making the romance inconsistent or not believable for the viewers, or possibly not central to the film.

Second, focusing the show on Carmy and Claire's relationship has happened at the expense of pursuing other, potentially more compelling dynamics. There have been sparks between other characters as reported by fans and critics, like Sydney and Luca or Richie and Jess, but the show has not pursued these relationships further.

This has frustrated viewers who believe there is more chemistry in these pairings than between Carmy and Claire. Finally, the commitment of the show to realism may also fail to bring romance as satisfyingly as any other aspect.

The pressures of the restaurant business and the emotional baggage that their characters carry leave little space for romantic fulfillment. Therefore, romance comes off as forced and out of kilter with the best parts of a drama and a well-developed cast.


Watch The Bear on Hulu.

Edited by Ishita Banerjee